a discussion we had in WLC concerning women.
What got me was the fact that the two black girls couldn’t fathom being chosen first.
"It seems like preferences are okay as long as it’s not Black women. But then it’s also not okay for Black women to have preferences other than Black men."
But why is anyone surprised though? Everyday you get the same message that a black woman is not beautiful, is not special, is not anything. The whole world shits on black women and we at the bottom of the rung when it comes to everything and that includes love and appreciation.
Ok I finally watched this, and it just goes to show that Black women are truly juxtaposed as the ultimate un woman. We are hated and disparaged and not allowed to be seen as beautiful.
This shit would happen often on the site that I would frequent for asian men. Black women ignored and deemed ugly despite the asian men on that site decrying the racism they face in the dating world
And the fact that the black girls said he was lyin is straight up internalized white supremacy
Not one single hurtful thing ever got changed by someone grinning and bearing it.
Hurtful things changed because people have said ‘That hurts me. Stop.’
And every time you try to silence someone and tell them that they shouldn’t be hurt, shouldn’t be offended, shouldn’t choose this battle, that this isn’t important and that other things are more important - you are serving the hurtful rather than the hurt."